29 April 2012
M: @rxtmr Pls convince Yontefian to be the next guest in #themaanshowThanks.
Y: good morning! kakaloka! kaya pala nung break chinika kami ni chico dahil dito. 
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M: so anong sabi ni @chicogarcia ?? game na kasi,
Y: rephrased: pilitin ka daw mag-guest sa #TheMaanShow ) @chicogarcia
M: Napilit ka ba?
Y: puro chika nangyari. hahaha:)) keri lang naman. wala lang ako net lagi. haha:))
M: pwede na ba ngayon?
Y: Game.
M: Game na. #themaanshow with @yontefian
M: Kumusta naman ang puso mo?
Y: Yun agad ang unang tanong? Happy with my family and true friends.
M: good to know. Eh ang puso pagdating sa love life?
Y: under construction. indefinite timeline.
M: ha?? Teka, akala ko dati in a relationship ka with ano. Kelan pa under construction yan? #clueless
Y: with @czarovic? good friends lang po kami, di ba jobert?
M: Di nga? Any showbiz ng sagot. Pero ang sweet nyo sa mga photos. Friends lang ba talaga o d lang official?
Y: In @czarovic‘s words, we’re good friends.
M: So hanggang dun na lang yun? Nanliligaw ba sya sa yo?
Y: yes
M: Yes to which question? Yung hanggang friends na lang or yung nanliligaw sya sa u?
Y: 1. sa pagkakaalam ko, yes. 2. yes.
M: kinilig ako sa no. 2 answer pero bakit naman hanggang friends na lang?
Y: Naku, ‘di ko din alam sagot dyan. Paki-tanong po kay Jobert.
M: Hindi ko sya matatanong hanggang di sya ang guest. So, hindi natin malalaman. Unless pumayag na sya.. @czarovic
Y: Swear, had I known the answer, I would have honestly shared it.
M: Kala ko ba nanliligaw sya sa yo, eh bakit sya ang nkakaalam kung bakit hanggang friends lang kayo? Db dpat ikaw?
Y: Eh kasi sya din naman ang nagsabi na we should just be good friends.
M: Bigla bang nagstop si @czarovic sa panliligaw?
Y: Basta may moment na sinabi nya na, “Let’s just be good friends.” @czarovic ’di ba?
(@czarovic: @maan_taj yes. kung anuman ang next question e worth it to answer in person.
@maan_taj: @czarovic Bakit ka sumasagot? Guest ka ba? Lol
Y: award talaga ‘tong host na ‘to! )
@czarovic: @maan_taj apologies, feeling guest e hahaha! #feelingeroforever
Y: hinay hinay kasi. ako lang sanay sa pagka-feelingero mo. haha
M: Mag guest ka na kasi Jobert.
Y: pwede bang suspended muna air time nung sa akin? since in the mood = #feelingguest na sha, sha muna? )
M: Hindi ba nag-explain si Jobert kung bakit biglang good friends na lang?
Y: Hiningi ko din yan. More than one month na, I still don’t have the answer to that.
M: Hindi makatarungan yan! Malapit mo na ba sana syang sagutin?
Y: Now that’s a tough question. *thinking* Ang daming ifs and buts… bottomline: almost got there.
M: nahurt ka ba?
Y: Dear, hurt is an understatement.
M: tapos walang explanation? Di talaga makatarungan. Eto, describe your friendship with him na Lang muna.
Y: Aug-Sept2011 were my fave months. Oct-Nov were awkward one. Dec-Feb were much better.Mar-confusing April-worst,so far
M: please elaborate.
Y: Paanong elaborate?The spectrum ranges frm moments that we’re super inseparable to when he tries his best to avoid me.
Y: Sorry for the delay. May orasyon moment kasi kami.
M: tries his best to avoid you? As if avoiding u is not bad enough, he tried his best pa?? Ouch naman!
M: so un nga, bakit nman he had to try his best pa just to avoid you?
Y: Naku, sorry. I wouldn’t know the answer to that either.
M: Paano ba nagstart yang friendship nyo? Reminisce muna para may idea yung iba..pati ako.
Y: 2011July09.Grand EB. Lunch w #TTB.Kahit magkatabi kami nung lunch, sina Tphen&Benjai lng kinakausap nya.
M: ok..go on..tapos…
Y: So sila madalas yung kakulitan sa Twitter. Tapos nagkaroon ng loveteam with @NorsyAlmario and @czarovic :))
M: pati pala si @NorsyAlmario di ko alam yun ha. so, paanong nauwi na si @czarovic ung parang masclose sa u?
Y: joke lang kasi yun:)) may iba kasing kasabay na love team nun. )
Y: We started texting nung nanalo ako ng phone sa t10. Then, we met one Sat na kami lang just to share files…
Y: …breakfast lang dapat. Naging lunch tapos bowling. And then mas madalas na texting.
Y: Until he surprisingly dropped by my place. Hinatid nya ako hanggang bus stop papuntang work.
M: ang sweet…dyan nagsisimula..sige..tuloy lang ang kwento..
Y: High point din ng calls and texts. He went to my area din for dinner.
M: may attraction na ba nung time na yun?
Y: Sabi nya nung EB pa daw, actually. E ang galing nyang di mamansin nun. Di nya kami kinakausap na mga newbie sa EB.:))
Y: tapos may mahaba pa syang VL nung end of Aug.Nag-brunch pa kami before he left.Tapos calls& texts din even w cousins.x
M: kelan mo narealize na you like him na?
Y: as in totally confeeermed? september. tree planting sa makiling. were together from 4am-12mn.
M: Quality Time!! Nalaman nya ba agad na like mo na sya?
Y: i’m sure before he left for the province nung end of august, he already knew.
M: di nyo ba napag-usapan na make it official na?
Y: we did. twice. september and february.
M: tapos? so, naging official na naging kayo? #beepbeepDid he break up with you?
Y: nope, nothing official.
M: so ano lang yung napag-usapan nyo?
Y: wait, september: nothing official. october-november he wasn’t texting like he used to. no calls. last meet:Oct 5.
M: sige..tuloy mo muna hanggang sa April 2012.
Y: Birthday nya kala ko di nya ako kakausapin.He took the call nmn.Nagkita kami uli dahil kay @icanbeDYNamic RU3(Nov13).
Y: We had lunch, or dinner, or see movies together.
Y: Feb-Mar pinakaconfusing kasi may moments na superhappy like Hot Air, book launch, date nights.Kaso may mga tampuhan..
Y: …or silent days. pag tinatanong ko naman if we’re ok or not, ok lang daw. (kahit na i felt like there’s something.)
M: parang Is There Something ni Christopher Cross ha..
Y: Juice ko, iniiyakan ko yang kantang yan! pati yung version ni Nina
Y: since never ko naman sha napipilit or napipigilan sa kung ano gusto nya, edi wala. until i couldn’t take it anymore..
M: anong ginawa mo nung di mo na ma-take?
Y: Mar24: We were on the phone for 4hours. That’s when he said, “Let’s just be good friends.” Mar25: Outreach sa CRIBS
Y: Here’s the fun part that day. Since I knew the group bec of him, pagdating ko dun, sha agad yung hinanap sa ‘kin.
M: ouch! so di pa nila alam ang mga pangyayari that day? anong reaction mo sa kanila?
Y: nope. no one there knew. sina @JRhyan and @_drix__ lang unang nakaalam kasi nag- #FuerzaBruta kami.then, I texted Iz.
Y: Ah, only one person there knew - @johncarlopalma. buti na lang he showed up. he hugged me naman when he came.
M: Nagpunta ba sya sa CRIBS nun?
Y: he did. he greeted and hugged me naman when he came and before he left. (kasi may family dinner for his bro’s grad.)
M: hmmm..hindi ka ba nagdemand ng explanation kung bakit bigla syang nagdecide na maging good friends na lng kayo?
Y: kaya kami matagal sa phone nung gabi before the outreach. i wanted to know kaya lang he didn’t know daw.
Y: Days after that, I kept telling him na when he knows the answer, let me know. Hanggang ngayon, I still don’t know.
M: bakit kaya? nagkaron ba ng third party? did he ask something frm u na di mo napagbigyan? o he just fell out of love?
Y: I asked.Sabi naman nya,”There’s no someone else.” @maan_taj: did he ask something frm u na di mo napagbigyan?-ang alam ko wala.
Y: o he just fell out of love? — I don’t know. Better ask him on this.
M: Nasabihan ka ba nya ng I Love You?
Y: oo naman.
M: Nag I love you back ka rin sa kanya?
Y: oo.
M: *sigh Actually, di lang ako ang nakapansin ng biglang pagkawala ng pictures nyo together pag EB. may iba rin. nakakalungkot.
Y: yung last set siguro nung feb pa. last time na we’re in the same place, march.
M: How would u describe Jobert?
Y: my used-to-be hon turned ‘good friend.’
M: How about as a person? Pano ba nya pinakita o pinaramdam sa u na u’re special?
Y: snob, feelingero:)) yung pinakanaalala ko: he knows what he wants. he knows what he doesn’t want. kahit anong sabihin
Y: or gawin mo, if gusto nya, di mo mapipigilan. if ayaw nya, never mo sha mapipilit. it’s a double-edged thing.
Y: Ex. Invite mo sha mag-Star City. Dahil hindi nya gusto yun, kahit sino pa andun or isama, never sha pupunta dun.
Y: Or, if gusto ka nya talaga makita, kahit gaano ka-busy, he’ll find ways to make time for you.
M: ano yung pinaka nagustuhan mo sa kanya?
Y: Can we end with that tonight? Have to wake up in 3 hours for our trip back to Manila.
M: yun na lang ang hanging question. Thanks for the time.
Y: sige. thanks, maan:)
M: Thanks Toni. Good night. Ingat sa byahe bukas.
To be continued…
